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LPB Blue – May 1st, 2019

Cynthia Abraham 

18-Year-Old Stabbed to Death on the Street

April 26 – Police are questioning four witnesses – two adults and two minors – in an attempt to determine what started the altercation that left an 18-year-old man dead.

The incident occurred at about 7:15 p.m. on Marc-Aurèle-Fortin Ave. in the Ste-Rose district, allegedly as two groups crossed paths in a residential area.

When police arrived at the scene, they discovered the victim with stab wounds to his upper torso. He was transported to hospital and later died of his injuries.

So far, no charges have been laid.

Peaceful End to 12-Hour Stand-Off

April 26 – A 12-hour standoff between the police and a man barricaded in his home ended peacefully last Thursday.

The incident began at about 11 a.m. when the suspect entered a local store and began causing damage and behaving aggressively. He then returned to his dwelling and barricaded himself inside as police arrived.

Police were uncertain whether the suspect, who is known to police and suffers from psychiatric problems, was armed.

A nearby school, daycare, as well as several neighbouring businesses were evacuated during the standoff as a precaution.

Officers settled in to wait. Almost twelve hours later, at about 11:30 p.m., the suspect quietly surrendered himself to police and was placed in custody.

Pickpocket Swipes Wallet from Restaurant Customer

April 25 – Laval police are asking for the public’s help to identify a suspect who allegedly stole a wallet from a restaurant customer at the Mega-Centre in Ste-Dorothée. The incident happened on March 29 at about 7 p.m.

The suspect and his accomplice entered the restaurant and sat themselves near the victim. They left the restaurant shortly after without ordering anything.

The victim eventually discovered that his wallet had been stolen from the pocket of his coat, which had been draped over the back of his chair.

Before the victim even noticed his wallet was missing, six purchases had been made on his credit card in Laval and Montreal.

LPD Blue - May 1st, 2019

Police describe the suspect as a white male in his 40s who stands about six feet tall and weighs about 200 pounds. At the time of the theft he was wearing glasses, and sported a goatee beard. He was also wearing a black coat with a fur-lined hood and a black cap.

This incident is similar to a wave of pickpocketing thefts that occurred two years ago and led the Laval police to launch an awareness campaign warning diners to be vigilant.

Anyone with information on the suspect in this latest case is asked to contact Laval police at 450-662-INFO (4636) or 911, and mention file LVL 190330 042.

Newborn Abandoned in Shoebox, Teen Mom Arrested

April 24 – Laval police arrested an 18-year-old woman after it was discovered she had abandoned her newborn baby and left it in a shoebox on a neighbour’s balcony.

Police received a 911 call last Wednesday around noon from a woman who reported finding a baby girl in a box on her balcony.

Shortly after, police were alerted by hospital personnel of an 18-year-old woman seeking treatment after childbirth, but the baby was not with her.

Police suspect the young woman gave birth alone in an apartment then left it on her neighbour’s balcony. The baby may have spent nearly two hours outside with the temperature around seven degrees.

The woman was arrested, but investigators had to wait to question her because she was receiving medical treatment. She could face a charge of failing to provide the necessities of life.

The baby, who received medical attention and is doing well, is in the custody of Quebec youth protection.

Priest Arrested for Sexual Assault

LPD Blue - May 1st, 2019

April 24 – Several weeks after a priest was charged with sexual assault, Laval police are seeking more people who may have been abused.

Laval police arrested Father Henri Paradis on April 4 and he was subsequently charged with sexual assaulting an individual in 1988.

According to police, Paradis went to the victim’s home in 1988 to hear a confession, and then touched the victim in a sexual manner.

The complainant came forward many years later, and police believe Paradis may have other possible victims. People are encouraged to contact Laval police by calling 450-662-INFO (4636). Calls are treated confidentially.

Paradis was the founder of the Jourdain Catholic Charismatic Centre in Montreal North in 1976, which refers to a biblical belief in the spiritual gifts of wisdom, knowledge, and more.

Paradis is scheduled to appear in court on June 17.

Legault caps flood-damage buyouts and compensation

Legault caps flood-damage buyouts and compensation

(TLN) While not everyone agrees the plan is fair, Quebec Premier François Legault says the province will help compensate flooded homeowners with sizeable payments, although he is warning that taxpayers shouldn’t be forced to shoulder the bill for flood damage forever.

Last week just days after the flooding crisis started, Premier Legault said the CAQ government would buy out flood-area house owners up to a maximum $200,000. As well, he said the province would establish a ceiling of $100,000 in compensation to owners making claims after flooding.

Limiting compensation

Speaking to media in Gatineau last week while touring the flood-stricken area, Legault said the provincial government will not be able to afford offering compensation “every year to solve problems, but only on a temporary basis.” He said the government preferred to offer incentives to move to stricken homeowners, since the current environmental conditions are starting to become a regular occurrence.

The reaction to Legault’s offer was swift in some quarters. In places affected by the floods, like Laval or Pierrefonds on the other side of the des Prairies River, homeowners have expressed their outrage that Legault would offer such low amounts for properties that in some cases are worth several times what’s being offered.

Relief for tax payers

Provincial compensation aside, another type of monetary relief appears to be on the horizon for those impacted by the flooding.

Revenue Quebec and the Canada Revenue Agency have both announced that they will overlook late filing penalties on income tax normally due April 30, as well as businesses filing for taxes, if the tax files in question are from individuals or businesses impacted by the floods.

However, the two agencies said taxpayers in this situation must make contact immediately to report their circumstances.

LPD Blue – April 17th, 2019

Cynthia Abraham

Robbery Suspect Used Pepper Spray to Flee

April 15 – Laval police are asking for the public’s help to identify a female suspect involved in a robbery and assault that occurred at a Dollarama in Ste-Dorothée last fall.

The suspect entered the store at about 1:30 p.m. on October 10, and made her way through the aisles sneaking several items into her bag before heading for the exit.

A security guard intercepted her as she tried to leave, but the suspect pepper-sprayed him in the face and then hit him several times. A female witness was also pepper-sprayed when she tried to intervene.

The suspect fled the scene by car.

Police describe the suspect as a white female in her 20s who speaks with an Arabic accent. She stands about 5’5” tall, weighs about 135 pounds and has several face piercings.

LPD Blue - April 17th, 2019

At the time of the incident, the suspect had auburn hair and she was wearing a black coat, dark-coloured pants, and black-and-white shoes.

Anyone with information on the identity or location of the suspect is urged to call 450-662-INFO (4636), or 911, and mention file LVL 181010 051. Calls are treated confidentially.

April Ice-Storm Tally

April 12 – Laval was among the regions hardest hit by last week’s ice-storm which left hundreds of thousands of Quebec residents with no power for several days.

Local authorities were quick to react and respond.

Two emergency shelters were opened in Laval for those who needed to get out of their cold homes and sleep somewhere warm and safe, and to accommodate those simply seeking a place to charge phones and electronic devices.

Laval firefighters and police officers reminded the public that people need to be prudent during weather events.

Firefighters rescued several people who had fallen ill due to carbon monoxide poisoning.

During the first two days of the storm, four adults and five children were taken to hospital in three separate incidents. Two of the incidents involved people who were using barbecues indoors, while in the third a man had a generator very close to his house and was overcome by the exhaust.

People also accidentally set 17 fires in Laval, often by knocking over candles.

Laval police spokesperson Evelyne Boudreau said many people were calling 9-1-1 to ask for help with health issues and with flooding.

“Firefighters were going door-to-door to say that carbon monoxide detectors have to be checked. Fire detectors also,” said Boudreau, adding that people with known health issues were also being checked on.

While proving extremely inconvenient for everyone on the island (except school-aged kids who enjoyed having the schools closed) the ice-storm did not cause any fatalities.

Hydro-Quebec, with the help of Hydro-Sherbrooke and crews from Vermont, had re-established power to nearly everyone by Thursday evening.

Laval Police Accused of Using Excessive Force on Minor

April 8 – A 16-year-old girl who was arrested recently by Laval police has accused the officers of using excessive force during her arrest, and breaking her nose in the process.

Photos of the girl and her injuries started circulating on social media after the incident, which took place on March 24. The images also include pictures of a blood smear on a Laval police cruiser’s hood.

The girl, whose name can’t be published because she is a minor, spoke out about her experience alongside her mother at a news conference organized by the Centre for Research-Action on Race Relations.

The incident occurred as police officers arrived at the scene of a complaint they had received.

According to the teen, an officer grabbed her by the arm and as she tried to pull away, she found herself face down on the asphalt. She was then handcuffed and her head was placed on the hood of the police cruiser. She alleged that she was punched twice in the head and then fitted with a spit guard. Her mouth was full of blood and she had to struggle to breathe without choking.

She claimed that one of the officers told her it was her own fault that her nose was broken.

Laval police offer a different version of events.

Responding to a call from a witness who reported seeing someone breaking the side mirrors of cars parked on a street near a party, officers attempted to arrest the young woman as part of their investigation.

According to Evelyne Boudreau, a spokesperson for the Laval police, when the officer tried to put the handcuffs on the teen, she fell to the ground and hit her face.

After the incident garnered attention on social media, the arresting officers’ conduct was reviewed by their supervisors, Boudreau added. The supervisors determined that the officers had done nothing wrong.

The girl was issued two tickets on the night she was handcuffed: one for public drunkenness, and the other for assaulting a police officer.

She may face further criminal charges, including obstruction of justice and mischief related to property damage.

Laval News Volume 27-08

The current issue of the Laval News volume 27-08 published April 17th, 2019, (Laval’s English Newspaper) covers local events such as politics, sports and human-interest stories. It features editorials and other columns. Click on the image to read the paper.

Guy Ouellette supports AGAPE with $3000 Extra Funds

Guy Ouellette supports AGAPE with $3000 Extra Funds

On April 12th 2019, Agape’s Executive Director, Kevin McLeod received a generous cheque in the amount of $3,106 from Chomedey MNA Guy Ouellette. 

This money was for the Volunteer Support Program of the Ministry of Education, Recreation and Sports and was to support Agape’s 2018-2019 efforts with the Chomedey community. 

“Mr. Ouellette always has and remains to be a big supporter of our organization” said McLeod. “I think it’s important that the residents of Chomedey know how involved he continues to be.”

Laval copes with ‘Ice Storm 2019’

Laval copes with ‘Ice Storm 2019’
Martin C. Barry

Public safety officials in Laval had the situation in hand last week following one of the most challenging freezing rain and ice storms in years brought down power lines, cut electricity and left debris from thousands of ice-laden trees scattered on the ground for salvaging over the weeks to come.

For many who were around more than 20 years ago, the pandemonium was a jarring reminder of the far greater ice storm that roared through the Montreal and Laval regions, the province of Quebec and large parts of eastern Canada in January 1998.

No power and fire hazards

Last week, Laval’s police and fire departments were kept busy with incoming reports of power outages, leading many homeowners to seek alternative heat and cooking sources which in turn resulted in some cases of carbon monoxide poisoning and domestic fires.

By mid-week, the Laval fire department reported at least 10 people suffering from the effects of carbon monoxide, sometimes coming from improperly operated emergency generators. As well, more than a dozen fires in Laval were believed to have been caused by unsafe use of candles and fireplaces while the electric power was out.

Laval copes with ‘Ice Storm 2019’

Traffic lights out of order

Traffic lights which were out of order at dozens of intersections in many parts of Laval are believed to have been a factor contributing to numerous car accidents. There were also reports of flooded basements caused by pipes which froze when electric heating was off. The Laval Police stepped up their patrols in areas where there were vacant homes, while also checking that residents who remained were safe.

Responding to the crisis, the City of Laval opened two storm shelters (centre communautaire Accès at 6500 Arthur-Sauvé Blvd. in Laval-Ouest and centre communautaire de Lausanne at 455 rue de Lausanne in Vimont) for residents displaced from their homes by cold and hunger.

Cots for overnight stays

They were able to recharge smartphones and use washing facilities. For those who chose to stay overnight, the Red Cross set up cots in the community centre basements. Several hundred residents are believed to have availed themselves of the offer.

The Laval News dropped by the Accès community centre in Laval-Ouest on Tuesday last week as some of the first displaced residents were arriving. Among the dozen or so people seated at tables in a second-storey meeting room were Pierre Tremblay of Laval’s Sainte-Rose district.

Refuge from the storm

“I have no electric power since yesterday around two in the afternoon and I haven’t slept all night,” said Tremblay, seated comfortably at a table with his smartphone and a few possessions, while adding that it was the lack of heat at home that finally drove him out. Also among the people who took shelter at the Accès community centre were some from Chomedey and Duvernay.

“We’re still waiting for power to be restored,” said Karla from Chomedey who preferred not to be identified by her last name. She was there with her mother who lives in Duvernay. At one point during the blackout, she found herself driving along Laval’s de la Concorde Blvd. trying to find a restaurant so that she and her mother could have a hot meal.

Laval copes with ‘Ice Storm 2019’
Scenes like this in Laval-Ouest of trees toppled from thick coatings of ice were common in throughout the Laval region last week.

Uneven electrical service

“Some areas had power, but then not even a block later no power,” she added. They didn’t expect to stay overnight at the community centre. The kitchen in her home was furnished with gas so she expected at least to be able to fix a hot meal, although staying warm would be another matter altogether.

Stéphane Brion of Laval-Ouest was also coping as best he could with the situation. He turned up on Tuesday last week after losing electric power around noon the day before. Looking tired and disheveled, he said he found it too cold in his home to wash up properly and came to the community centre for some respite.

Area’s schools impacted

Among those inconvenienced at least one day by the storm were educational institutions. The Sir Wilfrid Laurier School Board closed Pierre Elliott Trudeau Elementary and Pinewood Elementary, as well as McCaig Elementary and Rosemère High School on the North Shore.

The Commission scolaire de Laval (CSDL) also cancelled classes, although some CSDL professional training centres were open. Also on the North Shore, the Commission scolaire de la Seigneurie-des-Mille-Iles closed 22 schools and training centres. Some private schools, such as Collège Laval and Collège Letendre closed as well.

Mayor Demers reacts

At one point, Mayor Marc Demers urged residents of Laval to look out for one another. “If you have members of your family – parents, brothers, sisters – who are in a zone that’s lacking electricity, check in on their situation to make sure we’re not forgetting someone in distress,” he said.

Around the middle of last week, 213,000 Hydro Quebec clients in the Laval, the Laurentians and Lanaudière regions were without electric power, with Laval being among the most impacted areas. According to the city, more than 40 per cent of Laval was without power on the day following the freezing rain and ice storm. In addition to no electricity, phone service was also knocked out in some parts of Laval.

Using the Cell Phone in your Car

443.1. Every driver of a road vehicle and every cyclist are prohibited from using a cellular telephone or any other portable device designed to transmit or receive information or to be used for entertainment purposes, or from using a display screen, except in the following cases:

(1)  the driver of the road vehicle uses a hands-free device; or

(2)  the driver of the road vehicle or the cyclist consults the information displayed on a display screen, including that of a portable device, or uses a screen command if the screen

(a displays only such information as is relevant to driving or riding the vehicle or related to the operation of its usual equipment;

(b is integrated into the vehicle or mounted on a bracket, whether detachable or not, attached to the vehicle;

(c is placed so as not to obstruct the driver’s or cyclist’s view, interfere with driving or riding manoeuvres, or prevent the operation of equipment or reduce its efficiency and in a manner that does not present a risk of injury in case of an accident; and

(d is positioned and designed in such a way that the driver of the road vehicle or cyclist can operate and consult it easily.

For the purposes of the first paragraph, the driver of a road vehicle or cyclist who is holding a portable device in hand or in any other manner is presumed to be using the device.

The Government may, by regulation, determine the manner in which this section is to be applied, in particular by defining the meaning of certain expressions. It may also prescribe other exceptions to the prohibitions under this section and other standards applicable to display screens.

L’Appui Laval receives $1.476 million to help local caregivers

Martin C. Barry
L’Appui Laval receives $1.476 million to help local caregivers
Officials from the City of Laval, including Mayor Marc Demers, and from the provincial government, including Sainte-Rose MNA Christopher Skeete, gathered at the Axion 50 Plus seniors centre in Chomedey last Monday to announce an almost $1.5 million subsidy given to L’Appui Laval to improve support for Laval’s home caregivers.

Elected officials from Laval, including Mayor Marc Demers and Sainte-Rose MNA Christopher Skeete, gathered at the Axion 50 Plus seniors centre in Chomedey last Monday for an announcement that L’Appui Laval will be receiving $1,476,000 over the next two years to help provide support to persons in Laval who are caregivers to senior citizens.

The amount is being provided from a fund established by the Lucie and André Chagnon Family in conjunction with the provincial government. In an address, Skeete said he understood the need to provide better support to caregivers as he was in that position at one time.

Skeete was a caregiver

“When I was younger I was a caregiver,” Skeete said, noting that he provided home care to his late mother when he was still in his teens. He said he could have used some caregiver support back then, although it wasn’t available at the time.

“I’m particularly happy that we’re going to be announcing $61,000 over two years for SCAMA, which will help the English community and the Allophone community do a little bit more and provide and provide a little bit more assistance to its people,” added Skeete who is Premier François Legault’s principal liaison to Quebec’s English-speaking community.

Services Provided to Caregivers

In a statement issued to the media, L’Appui Laval said it is committed to funding 13 projects presented by eight Laval organizations. The group said the subsidy will serve to increase and consolidate different types of services to improve the quality of life of caregivers.

According to L’Appui Laval, 66 per cent of the amount will be dedicated to respite services, for a total of $978,384 over two years. Twenty-one per cent will be allocated to psychosocial support services, totalling $305,208 over the same period.

Thirteen per cent of the amount will go to information services, including training and support, for a total of $192,523 for this purpose over two years. L’Appui Laval said the investment prioritizes respite services to prevent the exhaustion of caregivers. Services will be available during the day, evening or at night.

Group Respite

Three community centres will offer day group respite for a total of five days: The Centre Communautaire le Rendez-Vous des Aînés, the Centre de services communautaires et d’aide au maintien de l’autonomie (SCAMA), and the Comité d’Animation du Troisième Âge de Laval (CATAL).

L’Appui Laval said the Société Alzheimer Laval is also proposing two group respite projects. A first atypical (occasional) respite, available seven days a week, 24 hours a day, and a respite project for caregivers of people less than 65 years of age.

Home Respite

Regular or atypical (occasional) individual respite services in the comfort of the home are also offered by three organizations: The Association Lavalloise des Personnes Aidantes (ALPA), the Coopérative de soutien à domicile, and the Société Alzheimer Laval.

Psychosocial Support Services

L’Appui Laval said the role of the caregiver sometimes reveals concealed strengths, but sometimes the caregiver needs support at different times in his or her experience. The Société Alzheimer Laval offers home-based consultations and follow-up services, with a focus on families.

Beginning in the month of May, Parkinson Montreal-Laval will prioritize offering group meetings once a week as well as a few individual follow-ups. And the Association Lavalloise des Personnes Aidantes (ALPA) offers support groups and individual support to caregivers who feel the need.

Information Services – Training

L’Appui Laval said the caregiver needs to be informed about his or her role and to understand their loved one’s illness. As such, the Association Lavalloise des Personnes Aidantes (ALPA) offers information sessions and conferences in French and English. An assessment of caregivers is possible, with referrals and support as needed.

As well, the Hellenic Social Services of Quebec (SSHQ) offers a variety of information-training activities and mainly targets Laval’s Anglophone and Allophone clienteles.

A Priority at L’Appui Laval

L’Appui Laval said that a major challenge for all organizations providing services in Laval is to reach out to the Anglophone populations, including ethno cultural minorities. In addition to services already funded, L’Appui Laval said it is investing in a new project at a community centre in Chomedey. The Centre SCAMA will offer new respite activities aimed at reaching mainly Anglophone and Allophone clients.

L’Appui Laval has also published a handy folder in English for persons caring for a spouse, a friend, a neighbour or a friend. For more information on the services available in Laval for caregivers, L’Appui Laval invites you to contact the INFO-AIDANT phone line at 1-855-852-7784, Monday to Friday from 8 am to 8 pm.

Beware Conservative budget cuts, Liberal govt’s Duclos warns before election

Beware Conservative budget cuts, Liberal govt’s Duclos warns before election
Martin C. Barry

With a federal election due to take place on Oct. 21, the incumbent Liberal government’s Minister for Families, Children and Social Development says he’s concerned that a Conservative government, if elected, would make drastic cuts to a vast array of family-oriented and social welfare programs implemented since 2015 by the Liberals.

Jean-Yves Duclos made the comments during an interview with Newsfirst Multimedia on the same day the conservative provincial government of Ontario led by Premier Doug Ford released its first budget containing widespread austerity measures designed to eliminate the province’s debt by 2024.

Wary of Conservatives

“Conservatives are known for two things,” said Duclos. “First they cut the benefits and services to middle-class Canadians. And second they give tax advantages to the wealthiest Canadians. That’s what they typically do and that’s unfortunately what they will probably also want to do in their election platform.

“We have a very different agenda,” added Duclos. “Our agenda is around supporting middle-class Canadians, and this agenda is working. Because since 2016 we have seen one of the highest growth rates of among the G7 countries.

“Canadians have created 900,000 new jobs. We have the lowest unemployment rate in four decades. We have lifted 825,000 Canadians out of poverty. This is working – strong economic growth – and growth that benefits everyone.

‘A different agenda,’ says Duclos

“The Conservatives have a totally different agenda,” said Duclos, a professional economist. “They are in 19th century economics where they believe that the only way to grow the economy is to help the wealthiest Canadians. But that’s not how it works in the 21st century.”

Duclos is a member of Prime Minister Justin Trudeau’s original cabinet which was sworn in on Nov. 4, 2015 following the Oct. 19 general election. Despite a number of cabinet shuffles that have moved some cabinet members to new portfolios while sidelining others, Duclos has consistently retained his responsibilities for a ministry with a fair amount of oversight, despite its sometimes low profile.

A Quebec City native

Duclos hails from the Quebec City area, where he was one of only two Liberals to win seats in the 2015 general election. In that election, Duclos found himself in a tight race against second-place incumbent Annick Papillon of the NDP who’d been elected four years before in the NDP ‘Orange Crush’. She finished exactly 1,000 votes behind him.

The 53-year-old Duclos is a highly-respected academic. He was Director of the Department of Economics and a tenured professor at Université Laval. He earned a Bachelor of Arts in Economics (First-Class Honours) from the University of Alberta, and his master’s and doctoral degrees in Economics from the London School of Economics and Political Science. In 2014, he was elected a Fellow of the Royal Society of Canada, the highest accolade bestowed on Canadian researchers.

Beware Conservative budget cuts, Liberal govt’s Duclos warns before election
Federal Liberal Minister for Families, Children and Social Development Jean-Yves Duclos says Ottawa needs to prevent as well as reduce homelessness.

Federal homelessness program

Among the major programs Duclos’ ministry is currently promoting is Reaching Home: Canada’s Homelessness Strategy, which was officially launched this past April 1. First announced in June last year, Reaching Home replaces the existing Homelessness Partnering Strategy, with a goal of reducing chronic homelessness by 50 per cent nationally by 2027-28.

“The most important thing is to recognize that to be homeless in 2019 is unacceptable,” Duclos told Newsfirst Multimedia. “We have a developed country, yet we have not the ability to look after each other. What should be is that no one should be left alone on the streets.

“But the second thing is that homelessness comes both from lack of affordable housing – and we know that housing is not affordable for many people – but also sometimes because of challenges: it could be health challenges, mental health, addictions.

The roots of homelessness

“It could be because of handicaps, youths coming out of institutions or people with disabilities who find it difficult to access proper housing. So homelessness doesn’t appear out of nowhere. It appears because there are unfortunately barriers for people to have an affordable and safe place to live.”

Ottawa has committed a total of $2.2 billion over 10 years to the Reaching Home program. By 2021–22, the amount allotted in 2015–16 would double, depending on who is in power in Ottawa by then.

Duclos acknowledges that homelessness has been on the increase everywhere in Canada for the past 20 years. While saying that funding from Ottawa to deal with the problem was consistent from 1998 to 2015, he suggested it could perhaps be used in a more targeted fashion. “It’s an issue of reducing homelessness, but also preventing it,” said Duclos.

How to fight homelessness

“That involves looking at the different challenges: women in domestic violence, younger Canadians coming out of institutional care, veterans, people with handicaps, with mental health issues. So having housing, but also services, to protect these people and prevent them from being homeless again.”

Asked whether he ever understood why the problem continues growing, Duclos responded, “Because of economic and social changes. Economic changes because work is more precarious and people lose their jobs more easily now. Also because of family separation which is more prevalent. And also an increase in mental health issues and addictions across the country. And again because of the lack of housing affordability.”

Alice Erciu Marachlian: One of Life’s Miracles

Renata Isopo
Alice Erciu Marachlian: One of Life’s Miracles

Chronic illness can generate feelings of denial, anger, grief. But at some point emotions subside and the harsh reality strikes that you are no longer the person you once were. The illness robs you of your sense of identity and purpose. Can a meaningful life be rebuilt? Yes, if an incredibly strong, courageous fighter who never let go of her will to live, a survivor, one of life’s miracles is any example of how to celebrate life by lighting a candle instead of cursing the darkness. Here’s Alice’s heroic story, told in her own words of inspiration to all.

Uncharted territory

“Rebuilding or redefining normal is a long process,” she says. After spending my teenage years at St. Justine’s Children’s Hospital as a permanent resident, and consequently at the Jewish General Hospital as soon as I turned 20, I felt that things couldn’t get worse. Rebuilding my life required that I explore uncharted territory.”

 What did you miss most about high school?

“It was bleak. I missed my friends, going to class, the activities, and just being a regular teenager. I was home-schooled but too sick even for that. Most days were spent in the hospital. I wanted to graduate with my classmates. My home-school teachers did their best, but it was too hard, they stopped coming, except for one who never gave up and made sure I would graduate with everyone else.

I left the hospital to attend the Laurier Senior High School Graduation Ceremony, an emotional day for me and family, flooded with tears of joy although I was still in much pain. To go on stage for my certificate was my greatest accomplishment, something I will never forget.”

Alice Erciu Marachlian: One of Life’s Miracles
Alice at Laurier Senior graduation ceremony

Did you ever lose hope?

“No. I never said, ‘Why me?’ – no matter what debilitating state I was in. On tons of medication, I underwent chemo, cortisone, and radiation therapy although I didn’t have cancer. Often delirious, I developed allergies, and lost my hair several times. I was unrecognizably bloated, weighing 200 pounds from medication and treatments, one experiment after another, hoping the next one would be it. 

My doctor travelled overseas to learn about my illness (Purpura Trombose Trombocitopenique) and how to treat it since very few people are known to suffer the condition. She wasn’t very successful, just more experiments which I willingly took. There was nothing else. Only 14 when struck with the disease, I didn’t understand it, but I learned a lot about it through my medical team.  Explanations and research from across the world helped me face what I was up against.  I never lost hope, knowing God was with me.”

How did the illness affect your family?

“Everyone was affected. It changed their responsibilities and boundaries. For my mom, it was emotionally and physically devastating, pulled in all directions, back and forth to doctors, hospitals, and home. She gave up her job since she slept at the hospital. She became a permanent fixture in my hospital room, was always there, a tower of strength never giving up hope even when there seemed to be no hope in sight. My dad suffered financial strains since he spent days at my bedside also. It was emasculating and frustrating for him to watch his child deteriorating, in pain, hooked to life-support machines.”

After seven years, what is your message to others who are chronically ill?

“Well, my family and I had to create a ‘new normal’ to better understand and find meaning in everyday challenges. To survive, you take it a day at a time, it’s all you can do. Take nothing for granted and realize you’re stronger and more capable than you ever thought you could be.

Never lose hope, stay faithful and true to yourself. Be thankful and positive, things can and often do change for the better. I lost over 100 pounds, still more to go, living at home now. I go for weekly for treatments, but I’m really much better, thank God. I’m planning my future although there are always crisis-mode moments. I’ve been through a lot, but in my heart I believe the best is still yet to come.”

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